If Every Girl You Approach Says No, Read This
You have crushed on this lady for long and you can’t hold your breath whenever you see her. You always imagine how you life will be when she comes into it. You always smile when you picture the way she smiles, talks, and even walk.
Your adrenaline always runs very high anytime you see her and it will drive you into a state of confusion, fear and you can’t even gather enough courage to tell her your feelings. After so much self courage, you manage to pour out your heart to her and she turns you down, I want to tell you this, it is not that you are not good enough or handsome but you lack some simple vibes to use. In fact, dump that notion that you are not good enough because women are most time moved by what there hear and not what they see.
Below are some of those reasons why your crush keeps turning you down.
1. You stare at her like a creep
As a guy, control how you look and stare at people. One thing women desire most is their protection. You can’t continuously stare at her, make her uncomfortable and expect her to listen when you approach. Women love guys who have manners and are soft spoken. If you are found of staring at women and making them uncomfortable, your proposals are bound to be rejected.
2. Your approach is too aggressive
Because you are handsome does not mean you should be aggressive when approaching a lady because you will receive a big NO. For a girl to say ‘YES’ to from her heart, looks are not needed here. Women do not like men whose approach is too aggressive. Whenever you want to woo a lady just put them in the position of a child and an emotional being and be soft spoken.
3. Your intentions are not clear
Stop wasting her time by beating around the bush. Women love confident guys who will go straight to the point and are not afraid of rejection. Let her know what you are up to once and for all.
4. You beg her to say yes
Always feel confident and know yourself worth. Don’t beg for love. If she will not accept you the way you are, let her go. You reduce yourself esteem by begging for love. When you do this, she will notice the signal easily and she is bounded to say NO.
5. You fear been rejected
Possess that ‘bad boy’ trait and don’t care whether she accepts you or not. Just follow your heart and if she says NO, then respect her decision. Women can read minds and once she senses this, chances are she might turn you down.
6. You are not her type
Women also have their taste so; you will show your manliness by respecting her opinions. Some love muscular men, others slim men, others reserved while others talkative. So accept that rejection if she turns you down because you are probably not her type.
Source: dewiseforlife (via Opera News )